Who cares about thoroughness

Although a certain amount of depth and knowledge must be present in order to appreciate thoroughness in the first place. So it might be unfair to expect some people to even acknowledge thoroughness. If detected some might perceive it as unnecessary, a waste of time, or as quirkiness.

Liking someone vs. being comfortable with them

As time passes and one gets to know someone better one might be less excited about them. But with time comes a comfort level as individuals get to know each other.

You might really not like a person that much after trying your best to accept them and adapt with them. And then there are family members who you didn't like ever since you remember. But the comfort that develops among people despite  disagreements is an incredible aspect of human relationships.